By Mary Salvino, Career Management Coach
Just
imagine chugging along, nose to the grindstone, being settled into a nice
routine with what is a near perfect work/life balance for someone with your
skills and experience. Now imagine that the
company wherein you work has merged with another company, you have been ‘downsized’
out of a job and near perfect world has crumbled. Unfortunately, you are not alone.
For the
next little while, you are going to have to develop a thick skin, learn how to
become more resilient in both your personal and professional life and develop a
dynamic strategic plan for your future.
Top Tips to
Remember When Managing Disappointment:
Disappoint comes in all shapes and sizes. It is a way of life. It cannot be dodged
or prevented, but it can and should be dealt with it in a productive and
successful manner.
Disappointment, like its cousins, fear, anger,
sadness, and depression, needs to be managed.
Life requires that we learn to how to deal with disappointments and/or setbacks in
both our professional and personal lives on a regular basis.
"Accept that some days you are the pigeon and some days the statue."
-
Dilbert
[Scott Adams]
Recognize that there is no single ‘correct’ way
to manage disappointment. The best way
to manage disappointment is the way that works best for you.
IQ drops 10-15 points when decisions are made
under duress.
Worry is unrelated to outcome.
" Worrying is like riding an emotional
Merry-Go-Round; you go up and down, around and around, but ultimately, you
don't go anywhere.”
-
M.
Salvino
Disappointment is
also like a coin with two sides. The other
side of disappointment is Courage. Courage takes action. To be courageous is to be prepared, to have
faith in your abilities to succeed, to put aside fear and doubt when tackling
the difficult, and to have an understanding of what to do if things do not go
your way.
“The wounded oyster mends
his shell with pearl.”
-
Anonymous
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